OP, it bothered me that I couldn't remember concisely but I figured it out after some thinking. The restaurant I saw it at was Harbor Villa in San Francisco.
restaurant:
https://www.yelp.com/biz/harbor-villa-restaurant-san-francisco-3
fried (i think this is it, but the filling is unknown, i think it's shrimp and some other stuff)
https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/har...san-francisco-3?select=olW5ONRQabMgs-8vdexAGg
steamed:
https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/har...san-francisco-3?select=O1N_RtwSntTBjPBqOhgcEg
restaurant:
https://www.yelp.com/biz/harbor-villa-restaurant-san-francisco-3
fried (i think this is it, but the filling is unknown, i think it's shrimp and some other stuff)
https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/har...san-francisco-3?select=olW5ONRQabMgs-8vdexAGg
steamed:
https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/har...san-francisco-3?select=O1N_RtwSntTBjPBqOhgcEg