Brokenlink
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I don't think their comments were directed at you, but rather at the majority of the population without a clinical diagnosis
Their strategies work for them; that's why they posted them. Maybe they will work for others. If you have tried their strategies and it didn't work, you are free to say as much. Please don't be dismissive of other's coping strategies and discourage sharing, that's not what this thread is about :ride
I'm not being dismissive. If it works for them great. That's not my issue. A lot of things work for a lot of people.
It's the blanket statements like "I made a few points about this subject in the other thread that was closed. My position is that people are much more in control of their " mood" than they give themselves credit for. Some are resistant to this idea, saying that they "cant" change the way they feel. Often the same person will blame others for the way they feel or behave. To me thats the same as saying " im not in control of me, but other people are". You are in control of you if you choose to be. Acting/thinking accordingly may very well be difficult, but its entirely within everyones grasp. "
Call me wrong, but this seems like a blanket statement and it is very dismissive of those that simply cannot fix their chemistry. I didn't take it as directed at me. But it's very indicative of society's attitude towards mental health "Hey, i used to have that same thing. But now I don't. Suck it up, buttercup." It isn't doing anyone a service.
We have had more than one BARFer kill themeselves. it surprises me that the attitude, especially of long-term barfers that remember these people is still "Just be happy".
And I am not at all talking about myself.
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