Somehow, I don't see some mesh network actually working unless there is some standard of valuing the data and how it is interpreted. These are all proprietary systems, which one, Apple, Google, Ford...is going to give up their way to go one way that isn't theirs?
Human drivers have been successful for decades without a mesh network. Why would an AI need one?
What an AI driver needs most is "big data": observations and sensor data of thousands or millions of human drivers. And that's going to be trivially easy to acquire! Major manufacturers like Honda will eventually wake up and start putting sensors in every vehicle they sell, even the ones that don't have any autonomous driving capability. Then in exchange for giving you a free watered-down cellular network connection or free Google Maps they're going to beam all the data those sensors collect to a huge central server farm, where it will get processed, incorporated into their AI driving algorithms and then downloaded to all Hondas with autonomous driving capability. No need to share data with anyone: Honda sold 5M cars worldwide in 2017 so they could easily be collecting data on a scale that Waymo and Tesla can only dream about.
As far as networks in general go, it's important to realize that standards are possible. They're the reason that an Android device can make a phone call to an iPhone and that my Amazon Echo Dot can tell my Samsung SmartThings hub to turn off the GE smart switch that controls the lights in my driveway. Standardization and technology licensing happens all the time!