Coping with Stress During Infectious Outbreaks-Taking Care Of Children

Melissa

Peace,Love and Harmony
When you hear, read, or watch news about this outbreak, you might feel anxious and show signs of stress. These signs of stress are normal. During this outbreak, it is important to care for your own physical and mental health and reach out in kindness to those affected by the situation.

Taking Care of Children
There might be children or young people in your life who experience distress. As a trusted adult, you can help reassure and educate them about COVID-19-it can be good to talk to them now, so they can understand the illness and be reassured. If you feel your child is getting distressed during the conversation, reassure and redirect the conversation to another topic or activity. Children react differently to stress than adults do. Children may withdraw or behave in a more regressed of babyish manner, seem anxious or clingy, be preoccupied with illness in their play or drawing, have problems sleeping at night or have nightmares. Children may also get physical symptoms such as stomach aches or headaches.
Here are some tips for supporting children or young people:


1. Reassure them that they are safe.
2.Encourage them to talk about how they feel
3. Tell them that they can ask questions and answer these in plain language appropriate for their age group and ability to understand.
4. Tell them that feeling upset or afraid is normal, that it is good to talk about it and finding creative and healthy ways to express their feelings-drawing, journaling, using clay or play doe.
5. Be understanding-they may have problems sleeping, throw tantrums, or wet the bed-be patient and seek support and care for your child and yourself during this time.
6. Make efforts to create opportunities for quality time and attention with your children.
7. Remember that children look to their parents to feel safe and to know how to respond-reassure them, share how you cope and that you know that you will get through this together.
8. Try to keep normal routines-mealtime, bedtime-allow them also to get fresh air and play in a safe place.

However, if your child is escalating in their distress, seek help early.

Hope this is helpful.
 

two wheel tramp

exploring!
My friend is a professional Nanny. I'll ask her how she's been dealing with children and their questions to see if she might have anything to add. Kids are like sponges, they perceive so much and soak up information. This is a great post Melissa.
 

gixxerjeff

Dogs best friend
When your dad, reads, or watches news about this outbreak, he might feel anxious and show signs of stress.

1. Reassure him that he is safe.
2.Encourage him to talk about how he feels
3. Tell him that he can ask questions and answer these in plain language appropriate for his age group and ability to understand.
4. Tell him that feeling upset or afraid is normal, that it is good to talk about it and finding creative and healthy ways to express his feelings-drawing, journaling, using clay or play doe.
5. Be understanding-he may have problems sleeping, throw tantrums, or wet the bed-be patient and seek support and care for your dad and yourself during this time.
6. Make efforts to create opportunities for quality time and attention with your dad.
7. Remember that dads look to their kids to feel safe and to know how to respond-reassure them, share how you cope and that you know that you will get through this together.
8. Try to keep normal routines-mealtime, bedtime-allow him also to get fresh air and play in a safe place.

My son and daughter are in their late 20's. At some point the rolls seem to reverse and they become the strong ones.
I like what you wrote, I wouldn't change a word.
....well, maybe a few of them. :laughing
 

ctwo

Merely Rhetorical
Children are practically more resilient than rocks.

I won't get into it.
 

AbsolutEnduser

Throttle Pusher
Children are practically more resilient than rocks.

I won't get into it.

Yeah you put children in tires instead? :hand ^^^ avatar



OK so..
Children look unfazed sometimes(and often) but IMO I think impressions stay with them and you don't know how can they get exhibited later in behavioral changes or nightmares.

When children sponge-perceive information they do NOT necessarily tell immediately the same day or whatever. It gets out after a while.
 

Eldritch

is insensitive
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BURNROPE

Well-known member
Here's a trick Jimmy Fallon told Howard Stern to get his kids to use soap and water. Shake or grind some black pepper on a small bowl filled with water. Wet your finger and dip it in the water. Nothing. Dampen your finger with soapy water and dip it into the pepper water. The pepper should scatter to the perimeter because of the change in surface tension to the water from the soap on your finger.
 

two wheel tramp

exploring!
My friend the nanny extraordinaire told me how she was handling questions:

It’s good to keep it simple and positive but truthful. Definitely don’t watch news in front of kids bc it’s all doom and gloom and it’s too heavy for them to process. Focus on what we CAN do to help the situation- 6 ft apart, wash hands frequently and stay home. When explaining in simple terms how the virus spreads be sure to say the doctors and nurses are caring for the sick people and we’re all working together to help.
 

bojangle

FN # 40
Staff member
Here's a trick Jimmy Fallon told Howard Stern to get his kids to use soap and water. Shake or grind some black pepper on a small bowl filled with water. Wet your finger and dip it in the water. Nothing. Dampen your finger with soapy water and dip it into the pepper water. The pepper should scatter to the perimeter because of the change in surface tension to the water from the soap on your finger.


youtu.be/iLgdCNr0NIk
 

ctwo

Merely Rhetorical
Yeah you put children in tires instead? :hand ^^^ avatar



OK so..
Children look unfazed sometimes(and often) but IMO I think impressions stay with them and you don't know how can they get exhibited later in behavioral changes or nightmares.

When children sponge-perceive information they do NOT necessarily tell immediately the same day or whatever. It gets out after a while.

I totally love my avatar for this forum. I don't know the source so all I can say is that the baby is smiling!

And, I haven't had a nightmare in decades.
 

clutchslip

Not as fast as I look.
mods-can you please spell children in the title instead of Childrenks?
Hmmmm. Too much stress? :laughing

I cope with stress with my anger. A certain east coast governor helps me a lot because he is such a buffoon, and yet he continues to get accolades This, and people polarizing the nation/world with political mud slinging really pisses me off. People who refuse to follow the guidelines also irritates me. Thus, there are plenty of places to focus my negative thoughts, rather than on my personal life. I refuse to get depressed or physically nervous. Those things may kill me.
 

Melissa

Peace,Love and Harmony
morning!
I have these things called finger nails and it wreaks havoc on my typing precision.
Also stressed and getting support.
 

littlebeast

get it while it's easy
GREAT thread!

this reminds me of a flight i was on years ago. i HATE flying, but have to do a lot of it for my job. i’m getting better, but still have anxiety attacks every time - have learned to manage them, but haven’t figured out a way to prevent them entirely.

anyway, back when i was a total basket case in the air, i was on a flight and we hit some heavy turbulence - and as per usual, i started to freak out. there was a woman and her small child seated behind me and i hear her start talking to her child, who apparently was also freaking out. i’ll never forget her voice, it was so calm and soothing. i don’t remember exactly what she said, but her words were comforting and reassuring. she talked to her child the entire time in that way - and i just kept focusing on her voice. it was awesome.

stupidly, i didn’t have the presence of mind to thank her when we landed, but i did smile at her when i stood up to leave the plane. somehow, probably from the look of relief and gratitude on my ashen face, i think she knew.
 

Melissa

Peace,Love and Harmony
It is so difficult to deal with others who present with anxiety and panic attacks when you yourself are not at baseline.
Sounds like the mother was able to regulate her child's emotional reactivity(yours too) Great job.

Also that you chose to listen to her voice is a sign that you are an excellent problem solver.
 
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