Interestingly, if you look at Feanor's posts from when he first joined BARF, he used his real name (David). I'm not sure when he became "Stefan" and started writing all the crazy stories. :dunno
08-09-2006 began signing posts Stefan
reading back through some of these (extensive) posts, the dramatic stories keep coming back to 'reminders' from his 'past' from parental figures, etc to always be TRUTHFUL and how terrible lying is and admonishments to other members, and talk about not liking taking time out of people's lives for bs- when quite obviously, just about everything was a fabrication.
its ok to live in your own little fantasy world but to continuously drag others into it, by pulling on the emotions of a self created audience, making an imaginary connection to feelings they and situations they
honestly experienced, is warped.
maybe it all started as a joke, but it progressed well beyond that by what I've seen, esp the posts earlier on in this very thread, which gave me scary flashbacks to living with a violent spouse .I never cheated but it didnt stop him from constantly accusing me- and I went through more than one episode of him suddenly veering off a known road, pulling into a deserted spot and becoming agitated and physical like one of the posts here...if that's just another made up story I have to say, that SICK and the author's entertainment value MOCKS the real pain people who have been in difficult situations face.
how are this member's actions any different from the 'Supernatural' account?