I'm OaklandLion
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Hey stud!
You doing good?
You doing good?
I've lost my ability to ride...amongst other things
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Hey guys, I haven't been on here for quite a while. No excuses, I feel bad about not updating anyone. Some of you may or may not know that back in June the lawsuit was settled. It was really a pyrrhic victory as medical bills, attorneys fees and insurance will gobble up most of anything.
Although it has given me the closure I thought it would, it has also had an unexpected effect. Up until that time I had a reason for my day to day life. The case was all-consuming for me. It gave me the motivation and determination to do something. Now that it's over I find myself very much without a sense of direction.
What's next for me? The big question. I'm someone who was always involved in something passionately, my job was my life, and motorcycles my love. Without either of these, the world has grown quite small and not having found new interests I find things alienating.
I would very much like to take some classes, And have involved myself with the Department of rehab to do so. The one hang up is that my schedule prohibits taking anything in the morning and I have no idea what to take.
On the better side of things, I've grown much stronger in my upper body, due to a piece of equipment I use in my home. It's called a standing frame, and it does just that -let me stand. It's very good for my blood pressure, bones, digestion and overall health. Coupled with my regular rehab in Pleasanton, and a good diet I find myself in the best health I have been in since the accident.
I truly hope I'll be able to go on the barf rally in September, but that hinges on a few things. I purchased a portable patient transfer lift which would allow me to travel, but more importantly I need to find a few people who would be willing to do some care taking. They would be paid of course, but the work is truly undesirable and a of a very personal nature. I should probably post something in the employment section. Maybe there's some RNs or LVNs planning on taking the trip.
Anyway, I just thought you guys deserve an update.
Thank you for your continued support.
All the best,
-Adam
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Although it has given me the closure I thought it would, it has also had an unexpected effect. Up until that time I had a reason for my day to day life. The case was all-consuming for me. It gave me the motivation and determination to do something. Now that it's over I find myself very much without a sense of direction.
What's next for me? The big question. I'm someone who was always involved in something passionately, my job was my life, and motorcycles my love. Without either of these, the world has grown quite small and not having found new interests I find things alienating.
I would very much like to take some classes, And have involved myself with the Department of rehab to do so. The one hang up is that my schedule prohibits taking anything in the morning and I have no idea what to take.
On the better side of things, I've grown much stronger in my upper body, due to a piece of equipment I use in my home. It's called a standing frame, and it does just that -let me stand. It's very good for my blood pressure, bones, digestion and overall health. Coupled with my regular rehab in Pleasanton, and a good diet I find myself in the best health I have been in since the accident.
I truly hope I'll be able to go on the barf rally in September, but that hinges on a few things. I purchased a portable patient transfer lift which would allow me to travel, but more importantly I need to find a few people who would be willing to do some care taking. They would be paid of course, but the work is truly undesirable and a of a very personal nature. I should probably post something in the employment section. Maybe there's some RNs or LVNs planning on taking the trip.
Anyway, I just thought you guys deserve an update.
Thank you for your continued support.
All the best,
-Adam
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dtrides
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Hi Adam! Thanks for checking in with us all.
I know it sounds scary but the "now what?" is a good place to be in. It shows you are open for the next chapter in your life.
It would be cool to see you at a Barf function but I won't be making Hawthorn.
As far as personal care ,we have our share of (NO, DONT SAY IT!) ass-wipes right here on teh Barf(did I just say that?):rofl:rofl:rofl:rofl:rofl.
It's ok my friend , we all need help. You will be providing the 'opportunity' for another human being to step into that roll. People will amaze you if given the chance.
I go to Pleasanton to the office once a week (Stoneridge Mall RD) maybe I could meet up with you some time after your thearpy?
All the best , DT.
I know it sounds scary but the "now what?" is a good place to be in. It shows you are open for the next chapter in your life.
It would be cool to see you at a Barf function but I won't be making Hawthorn.
As far as personal care ,we have our share of (NO, DONT SAY IT!) ass-wipes right here on teh Barf(did I just say that?):rofl:rofl:rofl:rofl:rofl.
It's ok my friend , we all need help. You will be providing the 'opportunity' for another human being to step into that roll. People will amaze you if given the chance.
I go to Pleasanton to the office once a week (Stoneridge Mall RD) maybe I could meet up with you some time after your thearpy?
All the best , DT.
F4iChic
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Hi Adam :wave
Good to see you posting dear boy
I'd offer to help you at the Hawthorne rally, but a couple of things prohibit me from doing so
One, I aint going :rofl
Two: I'm useless at nursing type stuff. I could throw money at the situation for you if needed though, I'm pretty good at that
So, who are the nurses around here
Farah (racergirl)
Kelly (nitewaif)
Drew (drewler)
Rick (machete)
Am I forgetting anybody :confused
We should hit them up and see if they are going and would be willing to lend a hand
Hey, I work in Pleasanton too, let me know when you want to meet up after one of your therapy sessions
Say Hi to yer mum for me
:kiss
Good to see you posting dear boy
I'd offer to help you at the Hawthorne rally, but a couple of things prohibit me from doing so
One, I aint going :rofl
Two: I'm useless at nursing type stuff. I could throw money at the situation for you if needed though, I'm pretty good at that
So, who are the nurses around here
Farah (racergirl)
Kelly (nitewaif)
Drew (drewler)
Rick (machete)
Am I forgetting anybody :confused
We should hit them up and see if they are going and would be willing to lend a hand
Hey, I work in Pleasanton too, let me know when you want to meet up after one of your therapy sessions
Say Hi to yer mum for me
:kiss
Adam, I still think you should give software development a try. It can be a steep learning curve but who knows, you might find you like it and then being the smart guy that you are you will certainly progress. If you do not like it that's it, but at least consider it.
Looking towards the future this domain will always be in demand, better paid than many and does not require top physical condition. Plus ya know, it's a form of creation as well, at core not that different from producing a piece of nice jewelry or a yummy dish
Still ready to help if you decide to give it a try. Best of luck with everything !!
Looking towards the future this domain will always be in demand, better paid than many and does not require top physical condition. Plus ya know, it's a form of creation as well, at core not that different from producing a piece of nice jewelry or a yummy dish
Still ready to help if you decide to give it a try. Best of luck with everything !!
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Thx man, the more people the better. That way I don't monopolize someone's trip.In for helping you in Hawthorne. I get up super early, so I can easily take the first shift. And I can drive too. Price for you: £0, €0 and $0. But I only give sponge baths above the belly button. No funny business.
:wave
Yeah it's good, but damn I feel unproductive now.
How is you?
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sure, I'm there mon, Wed, Sat and I'm using done around 4:30. Thanks man.
hey you!Hi Adam :wave
Good to see you posting dear boy
I'd offer to help you at the Hawthorne rally, but a couple of things prohibit me from doing so
One, I aint going :rofl
Two: I'm useless at nursing type stuff. I could throw money at the situation for you if needed though, I'm pretty good at that
So, who are the nurses around here
Farah (racergirl)
Kelly (nitewaif)
Drew (drewler)
Rick (machete)
Am I forgetting anybody :confused
We should hit them up and see if they are going and would be willing to lend a hand
Hey, I work in Pleasanton too, let me know when you want to meet up after one of your therapy sessions
Say Hi to yer mum for me
:kiss
Machete PMed me already, I'll check out some others in the list too thanks.
Me mum is in England right now for a well-deserved vacation. But when I speak to her I'll say hi.
You are welcome to come say hi when I'm in Pleasanton. Monday Wednesday Saturday? I start therapy around 1:45 to 2:00 and I'm done around 4:00.
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carries an axe
meat bone meat meat meat
I'm still down, things just got really busy sorry I dropped contact, I'm horrible at keeping correspondents.Adam, I still think you should give software development a try. It can be a steep learning curve but who knows, you might find you like it and then being the smart guy that you are you will certainly progress. If you do not like it that's it, but at least consider it.
Looking towards the future this domain will always be in demand, better paid than many and does not require top physical condition. Plus ya know, it's a form of creation as well, at core not that different from producing a piece of nice jewelry or a yummy dish
Still ready to help if you decide to give it a try. Best of luck with everything !!
oorahduc
troll dad
Hey Adam,
We've never met, but I'm one of many that jumped at the opportunity to make a donation towards a new bed for you via the neck warmer that was sold out of Scuderia West. I didn't even necessarily need it, although it has come in handy; it was just a very good cause. I still have that warmer and it still reminds me of everything I've read about your challenges and determination. You are one strong chap. I'm not much use in the caregiving department since I just manage a gym, but if anything ever pops up and I see that you need something I can provide/help with, you can count on me offering!
Stay in good health, mate.
We've never met, but I'm one of many that jumped at the opportunity to make a donation towards a new bed for you via the neck warmer that was sold out of Scuderia West. I didn't even necessarily need it, although it has come in handy; it was just a very good cause. I still have that warmer and it still reminds me of everything I've read about your challenges and determination. You are one strong chap. I'm not much use in the caregiving department since I just manage a gym, but if anything ever pops up and I see that you need something I can provide/help with, you can count on me offering!
Stay in good health, mate.