Let's talk more about dating (more like a rant)

jh2586

jh2586

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I'm really just trying to figure out the thought processes of 'most' women. So, since my separation/divorce, I have been talking to several women on these so-called dating apps (Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid, etc). My profile says something along the lines of "I am seeing what's out there but not looking for anything in particular". It's the stone-cold truth. I don't have time for these stupid ass games. I'm not "sleeping around" which means I am not JUST looking for sex, but hey, if it happens, it happens. I'm not gonna say no.

So this girl that I've been talking to for about 2 weeks now (and gone on several dates with), came over last night to watch the Super Bowl. Mind you, she knows that I am "dating around" with other women. Long story short, we ended up having sex. All is good right? Wrong.

As soon as we finished our business, I go back to the game to see what happened in the game (the Patriots made a remarkable comeback). She was in the bathroom cleaning herself up. A few moments later, this girl leaves my room and goes straight for the front door. She leaves without an explanation :wtf

5 minutes later, her friend calls me and asks me "Hi, I'm so-and-so's best friend, why do you have wrappers of feminine products in your bathroom trash bin?"

So I kindly explained to her that I had a girl over last night and she was on her period. Then she sits there (her friend) and tells me how it was disrespectful and how I'm just a dog/player and don't care for anyone but myself.. etc.. She even brings my son into the conversation and starts saying that I'm setting a horrible example for him and blah blah blah.

What the fuck, over?

So let me get this straight, this girl that I've known for all of 2 weeks that I've gone on maybe 3-4 dates with WHO KNOWS I'M ALSO DATING OTHER WOMEN, comes to MY house and is upset because MY trash bin had someone else's pad wrapper and I'm the one who's disrespectful? I texted her wtf was her problem and after I told her that I disclosed that I am also dating around, she replies with "WELL YOU DIDN'T SAY YOU WERE SLEEPING WITH THEM!!!"

Ok I'm done.
 
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mean dad

mean dad

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Your fault, bro. Tidy your damn place up, and anticipate any issues that might arise.

How would you have felt if you saw an opened condom wrapper in her purse after you boinked her? Not in a hurt feeling kind of way, but it might suddenly bring into focus the idea that another penis was in there very recently. :dunno
 
jt2

jt2

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mean dad said:
Your fault, bro. Tidy your damn place up, and anticipate any issues that might arise.

How would you have felt if you saw an opened condom wrapper in her purse after you boinked her? Not in a hurt feeling kind of way, but it might suddenly bring into focus the idea that another penis was in there very recently. :dunno
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:laughing :thumbup

Yeah, seriously OP. Common sense.
 
Melissa

Melissa

Peace,Love and Harmony
You left the bed right after you were done?
I hope that you gave her pleasure too.
Maybe she was pissed because she thought you inconsiderate?


just askin....
 
Strigoi

Strigoi

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jh2586

jh2586

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mean dad said:
Your fault, bro. Tidy your damn place up, and anticipate any issues that might arise.

How would you have felt if you saw an opened condom wrapper in her purse after you boinked her? Not in a hurt feeling kind of way, but it might suddenly bring into focus the idea that another penis was in there very recently. :dunno
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Dude ok, first of all, my trash bin wasn't even halfway full. The wrapper that she was talking about was a piece of fucking white paper that I could barely distinguish from regular toilet paper. Trust me, if I would have seen that, I would have taken it out. And my place is plenty clean. I even washed the sheets and blanket after the other girl left the night prior. I just don't see how it was my fault. It's my house that I invited her to. She doesn't pay my bills nor does she dictate what I do with my life. I didn't lie about anything so what the hell was her problem?

Melissa said:
You left the bed right after you were done?
I hope that you gave her pleasure too.
Maybe she was pissed because she thought you inconsiderate?


just askin....
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I left the bed because she went straight into the bathroom right after sex. I went to check up on the game.

If that were the case, she would not have had her friend call me to "lecture" me on my life choices :laughing

I guess it isn't so much a rant, but rather a :wtf moment
 
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Melissa

Melissa

Peace,Love and Harmony
I don't know man, women have needs too.
If you satisfied her then she would probably return to you and your clean sheeted bed.
 
jh2586

jh2586

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Melissa said:
I don't know man, women have needs too.
If you satisfied her then she would probably return to you and your clean sheeted bed.
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Then perhaps I need to work on it :twofinger

I have been out of practice for awhile :laughing
 
SM610

SM610

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Melissa said:
I don't know man, women have needs too.
If you satisfied her then she would probably return to you and your clean sheeted bed.
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Shitty thing to say, go straight for the junk jugular. Invites him to openly criticize her performance when it wasn't in play till you brought it up. "Well now that you mention it, I rang her bell a number of times, yet found myself wondering what the football game was doing... So afaic she could have stepped it up notch compared to the girl who left the garbage in the bathroom. They could have been playing the superbowl in the kitchen and I would have missed it!"

:laughing
 
Climber

Climber

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A woman will know that there is the possibility that you might be sleeping with other women, but she doesn't want to be confronted with the proof of it in the bathroom. Also, people who are new dating somebody and like them will want to assume that just because the possibility exists doesn't necessarily mean that you have. Also, something that may look very similar to toilet paper to you will be obviously a feminine product to a woman. A suggestion for the future, empty the whole garbage container and remove all traces of the previous woman.

Also, maybe things have changed for women in the last decade or so, but most women get more emotionally caught up in a guy they're having sex with than guys and little things will have more of an effect on them than they would a guy, though if you're digging a women you've been dating for a couple weeks and just hooked up with her, how would it feel to see several magnum condom rappers in the garbage while you were still in the post sex glow?

The super bowl catching your attention afterwards probably didn't help, many women have experienced the man rolling over and going to sleep immediately after sex and find the experience demeaning even if they don't understand the physiology reasons for it.

Finally, don't forget that most women aren't out there to just hook up, many of them are looking for a long term relationship and have different expectations than most me.

My :2cents
 
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