Getting back in to the dating game. As a pilot it's actually harder to meet people than you'd think. It isn't all glamorous, and before you stay it, no... is best to just stay away from flight attendants.
Anyway, decided to give Bumble a try, have a few matches, asked one out for dinner and she accepted. Had a plan, pick her up, take her out (eventually sometime down the road PIITB since you are going to say it anyway ). Then she came back with something that just threw me off.
"Is there a reason you want to pick me up? I've never had that offered before. It's new to me."
Are you serious? I'm 39, she's 28. Do young guys and "boys" really not do this anymore? Drive to her house, pick her up, open the door? You know, be a gentleman? And women, why are you allowing guys to be so lazy and not put in any effort? Now I can understand we haven't met, maybe she wants to meet somewhere before I go to her house, that's no problem. But to have no idea about a man doing this for a woman, it being new?
The date itself was fine, not really into her. No, I didn't PIITB, didn't even go for a goodnight kiss which I think she was wanting because she lingered at her car longer than necessary.
Anyway, was just surprised by it.
Anyway, decided to give Bumble a try, have a few matches, asked one out for dinner and she accepted. Had a plan, pick her up, take her out (eventually sometime down the road PIITB since you are going to say it anyway ). Then she came back with something that just threw me off.
"Is there a reason you want to pick me up? I've never had that offered before. It's new to me."
Are you serious? I'm 39, she's 28. Do young guys and "boys" really not do this anymore? Drive to her house, pick her up, open the door? You know, be a gentleman? And women, why are you allowing guys to be so lazy and not put in any effort? Now I can understand we haven't met, maybe she wants to meet somewhere before I go to her house, that's no problem. But to have no idea about a man doing this for a woman, it being new?
The date itself was fine, not really into her. No, I didn't PIITB, didn't even go for a goodnight kiss which I think she was wanting because she lingered at her car longer than necessary.
Anyway, was just surprised by it.
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