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Aluisious

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I have to smile when backwards hicks come up with stupid reasons they can't have gays in their unit. They used to say the same thing about blacks.
 

jacksprat

+magic
They used to say the same thing about blacks.

The difference being that while one can choose whom to have sex with, one cannot choose their skin color.

It is stupid to say either would effect ones bravery and loyalty on the field of battle.
 

cardinal03

Well-known member
The difference being that while one can choose whom to have sex with, one cannot choose their skin color.

It is stupid to say either would effect ones bravery and loyalty on the field of battle.

I don't know. I don't think I could choose to have sex with a man rather than my wife tonight any more than I could choose to make my skin purple. I've got to assume gays and lesbians pretty much have the same thing going on.
 

vaara

Well-known member
:rolleyes
:laughing

I choose to have sex with women. I don't choose to be attracted to them. There's a difference.

Precisely, but "attractional orientation" (to coin a phrase) is an immutable characteristic, just like race.

Currently you can be kicked out of the military for simply saying you're gay -- whether you actually act on it or not.
 

MtnRacer

Veterinarian
All three of you are full of shit. You don't choose to have sex with anybody. They chose you and you mouthbreathers jumped on it! :twofinger

Steve
 

jacksprat

+magic
All three of you are full of shit. You don't choose to have sex with anybody. They chose you and you mouthbreathers jumped on it! :twofinger

Steve

:laughing
I let her think she chose me. It makes her feel in charge.

Precisely, but "attractional orientation" (to coin a phrase) is an immutable characteristic, just like race.

I don't actually agree with this. If you look at men in prison, although they identify themselves as totally hetero, they can become attracted to men and act accordingly.

When I say I "don't choose" I mean it comes naturally, but that doesn't mean that I "can't choose".:laughing

I do not believe there is any characteristic one cannot change about themselves if they know how and have the proper motivation. Whether or not one needs to is an entirely different matter.
 
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cardinal03

Well-known member
I don't actually agree with this. If you look at men in prison, although they identify themselves as totally hetero, they can become attracted to men and act accordingly.

To be fair, I think there's a bit of a difference between being gay and being held down in a prison shower and anally gang-raped. It's not much of a choice when Bubba's got you locked in a cell with him, he gently climbs into your bed, holds you down and says "This is going to hurt. Make a sound and I'll cut your throat."
 

jacksprat

+magic
It's not much of a choice when Bubba's got you locked in a cell with him, he gently climbs into your bed, holds you down and says "This is going to hurt. Make a sound and I'll cut your throat."

Yes, but does Bubba think he's gay? :laughing

It doesn't matter to me who one bangs or what the color of your skin. But to say they are the same doesn't make sense to me. One cannot change one, one can the other. Neither matters to me.
 
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vaara

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I do not believe there is any characteristic one cannot change about themselves if they know how and have the proper motivation. Whether or not one needs to is an entirely different matter.

But try as I might, I can never become black.
 

Aluisious

Well-known member
But try as I might, I can never become black.

Try harder.

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