All three of you are full of shit. You don't choose to have sex with anybody. They chose you and you mouthbreathers jumped on it!
Steve
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I let her think she chose me. It makes her feel in charge.
Precisely, but "attractional orientation" (to coin a phrase) is an immutable characteristic, just like race.
I don't actually agree with this. If you look at men in prison, although they identify themselves as totally hetero, they can become attracted to men and act accordingly.
When I say I "don't choose" I mean it comes naturally, but that doesn't mean that I "can't choose".:laughing
I do not believe there is any characteristic one cannot change about themselves if they know how and have the proper motivation. Whether or not one needs to is an entirely different matter.