I had to look up "brodozer" That's some funny shit.
Sadly I already knew the term. The old term is "California Curb Crawler."
This...
Full size: Ford
Small size: Toyota
is pretty much true. The quality and durability of a smaller pickup, I would have to give the nod to Toyota. The Tacoma is the runaway favorite is the small pickup class. Especially when you see 10+ year old Rangers and S-10s that are just beat to shit. Not saying that I've never seen Tacomas and Frontiers that are roaches, but the domestics don't seem to hold up as well there.
When it comes to full size trucks though, it's totally the other way. Toyota and Nissan are still playing catch up. And doing it with some seriously funky looking trucks. Seems like the Tundra and Titan get uglier everytime they try to redesign them. Full size trucks is what America does better than anyone else. Sure there's always some snob that will come out and say "well a H1 Humvee or a Unimog can totally outwheel any of those." But that's all they do bettter. Today's full size trucks drive amazingly well for what they are, get respectable mileage considering who much they weigh and how much more than can haul, and are surprising very nice inside them.
I personally don't care for the Ram, but it's so feature loaded, it even has built in WiFi available. The top of the line GMC has ass coolers. The King Ranch F-150 looks like they slaughtered a whole field of cows to provide all the leather inside.
For your budget of 30k, you're in great shape. 2011s are coming in. Dealers would like to clear out the '10s and will get even more aggressive with the discounts and low/no interest financing. And they've already been discounting heavily. You could get a true crew cab, but extended cabs these days actually are pretty comfortable even for 6 footers. Really depends on how much you like the doors and how much wheelbase you want to manage. If you're looking to put a massive sub box in the back, extended or crew still gives plenty of room. You could easily score a nicely optioned full sizetruck for under your budget. Not sure if you wanted 4x4, but figure on adding another $3000 to get it.